Monday, April 20, 2020

What this lockdown brings to me...


A real tough time for some though , it brings a lot to me in person...
It brings in a lot of self realisation and definitely in a good way ...
I know what potential I have which I almost forgot...
It makes us know we can do all by ourselves and need not be just as dependent as we always are...
We know we have more friends than enemies... 
We can still move our hands for work...
We now know how important materialistic things are important to us ... 
We no more need shopping as a therapy... the real therapy now is taking care of family and kids
Cooking for them , doing things for them is still a greater enjoyment than going shopping...
How useless was it of us to go shopping everyday and buy useless stuff all the time ... 
We can even do without it what we always thought was very important for us... 
The essentials of life are actually different from what we thought them to be ...
Keeping fit , staying home with family , teaching kids on our own .... is a greater learning than anything else....
Wow !! We even realise how intelligent kids of today are...
They are fortunes to us rather than our tasks.... 
Sending them to classs will not suffice as realised... , rather giving more time is required... 
Making them happy is all what is important and long living in life .... teaching them the right lessons is what is important... 
Watching Disney movies with them is all the way more crazy... and reminds you of your childhood days...
Staying home being free from everything outside is always giving more safety ... 
friends we lost touch with are now actually getting in touch , making us feel more energetic and happy... old friend are like medicines in life ,you always need them from time to time...
Life is soo meaningful and deep ... only when you have time to feel the depth....
Playing outdoors with kids , hubby and all family is like a routine .... and after all that playing you are not tired at all ... it fills you with good vibes ... kids are happy to play at home rather than going for classes...
We realise we have so much to give to kids that time is not enough...
But what brings sadness is that this will soon end and everything is going to be back ... to the routine!!
And sadly but true we will all forget the realisations in the flow of time and be back to what we were .... our usual lives!!

Monday, June 25, 2012

When did you really fall in love with her….



On seeing a man of about 60 yrs of age sitting silently under a tree in the park with a deep smile on his face, which signified immense contentment in his life, I went to him and asked, “hey sir, what’s so special that you look so happy ..??”

He said with an even more deepening smile, ” It’s my wife’s death anniversary”

I was shocked and controlling my reactions I said,” I am so sorry, I thought its something special.”

He said, “It’s special. Very special, everything about her was and will always be special, you don’t need to be sorry child. I love her so much that I still don’t realize that she is not there. She is and will always be a part of me and my life even when she is not around.”

It touched me and I just couldn’t resist asking if it was a loved or an arranged marriage….

To which he answered with a grin, “love sweetheart”

I immediately jumped with a second one,” so when did you really fall in love with her…??”

To which he took a deep breath and answered ….
“ First time when I saw her entering the class, it was first year of college and she joined late… As she entered, her confused look, her scared eyes, her short of breath … everything made me fall in love with her.

The day we first talked, I loved her voice. Then became friends and then special friends… each day made me fall in love with her over and over again….

The day I proposed to her and she said a ‘yes’, that day I loved her….
The time we spent together, walking, talking, watching movie … each time I loved her more..

The day of our marriage, she walked in a pretty red and gold, I loved her then... The day when she told me she was having my baby and finally the day when she handed me a beautiful girl in my arms … I loved her… Growing old with her each day brought me closer and closer to her and loved her each time more than the time before…

So my child I really loved her each time and each day….. and even today..

To which I just smiled and holding my tears said, “have a great day, sir”

And now I understand what love actually is….

Its not a timely crucs, its not something that ever fades, it only grows deeper and deeper with time. That is love, true love…..


Thursday, January 5, 2012

Power of Shopping !

For all the girls like you n me it is a bliss
Wen you are alone ,this is what u miss

Wen you are sad this is the best way you can pamper
When you are happy , there is nothing that can hamper

When you are with friends, it is fun
When you are with dad, it is pun When with mom, it is a sweet bun

You never get tired, you never get bored
Its like a dope, the more you do it , the more u feel like doing it !

It keeps you occupied when you are idle
It keeps you drenched when you are drained

It feels like heaven when out for it
Coz the list for shopping goes endless - it starts from A- attire ;B- books , bags ;C- clothes , cologne , and it goes onn...

It is when you go out with empty hands and bring home happiness in bags

It cheers you up, lifts your spirits high, elate your sole, brings inner felicity back!
Irrespect of the rues and sues in life ...
Go shopping !

Sunday, January 1, 2012

First Times...

Life is full of first times and each is special in its own way ...

Your first day at school ,Was the first time you were on your own ...

First time on stage, Was so fearful

First friend, Will always be there in your stories..

First cycle ride , It was the start for all other rides to come... Be it on grounds of track or in life

First heels, Made you learn to stand in style even on nails, You understood what pressure means ...

First phone, Always so close to your heart that You almost lost a beat on dropping it ...

First college day, so dreadful

First love letter, mixed feeling : scared and happy :)

First drink, tasted yuck , Still had to have it ...

First night out, Was soo much fun and it was just the beginning ;)

First kiss, will always remember...

First love, will always be the first

First tattoo , thank god its forever :)

Bachpan

Wo maa ka maarna aur phir gale se lagaana,
Wo papa ki daant aur phir dher saara pyaar
Wo choti si chot aur bahut saara rona,
Phir sabka humko chupp karana,
Wo bhai se ladaii aur phir khoob saari dosti
Wo doston se pal me katti aur pal m pucchhii
Wo dada dadi ka laad aur nana nani ka dulaar ,
Ab bahut yaad ata h humko...
Wo befikar pal jab kisi ki na thi khabar,
Kya tha sahi aur kya tha galat ,
Wo paani m khelna aur mitti m baithna,
Jab naa tha ooch neech ka pata ,
Naa bade chote ka gyaan ,
Chotu bhi tha bhai k jaisa samaan ,
Wo pal m niraasha , aur phir pal m ullaaas
Ab kahan wo maasoom baatien , kahan wo bachpan
Ab bahut yaad ata h humko
Kyun huye bade hum kyun aya ye bhed bhaav
Isse pyara to tha bachpan hi humko
ab bahut yaad jo aata h humko...

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Back to Life...

When I lost all hopes,
When the world seemed ending,
When u left me
When I was alone
When it was all dark
When no ray of light
When there was no faith left
When everything was so meaningless
When I could anticipate our end

There comes a spark and I am back to life
Not so simple ,Not so easy
Too much of pain
And too much aggression
Too much of suffering And too much of hard work
But all is worth , When You end up with results ...
That's why always believe in one's self and God... And life is never going to end..

Monday, December 19, 2011

All 1 want in life iss...

All 1 want in life iss...
A dance in d rain
A walk in d dark
Music on rooftop
A never ending road n a journey wiv sm1 spcl
A peck on d cheek
A whisper in ear
A cold nite wiv a cozy partner
A warm breath in ma face
A hand in my hand
A touch so delicate
A hug so tight
A fumbling no
A firm YES